If there's one subject we all become inclined to, that would be love. I can't think of any other topic that invites the eyes, ears, minds, and hearts of the audience like love can. I guess it's due to the fact that it belongs to the universal facets which are inescapable as they are set to influence the very core of our lives.
Whenever an encounter on the matter arises, our hearts betray us and get us involved in the situation and if we're not too careful, it might shoot up and break our very cores. Love is a battle, and if you're not ready, it will destroy you whether it's intentionally and in most cases, unintentionally.
In instances like dating, love is at its peak - it's imposing and at the same time in its precarious stage. Even so, it's not "fate" that gets to decide how the relationship might turn out. The word "relationship" is also in question especially when not one of the two people involved bothers to figure out whatever it is that is taking place. Nobody wants to be left in the dark especially when it comes to love. Best ways to handle this type of situations are as follows:
IGNORE.
Say you were attracted to this somebody, and it just so happens this person displayed actions that may actually be a response to your suppressed emotions, what would you do then? This sort of condition should be left out in the dark simply because there is no light at the end of the tunnel. If at the very start of the adventure, there are already confusions, you could skip "asking" and move on to ignoring the perplexing questions entirely. This is as easy as ignoring the nagging sales assistant who follows you everywhere you go inside the mall. Maybe this is why some people prefer online mobile stores from personal shopping. You could get all the information you need from the Internet. Going back to ignoring the nagging feelings, it's a failsafe strategy. This way, the possibility of you getting hurt is close to nothing because you didn't entertain the emotions in the first place.
ASK.
It is always a bad idea to assume something you yourself aren't sure of. Assumptions are only good when you have at least an inkling of what might happen; otherwise, it's just plain trouble. This task is a must for everyone particularly those who are predisposed to texting and/or emailing through their smartphones as there is a great chance words could be misinterpreted if not carefully constructed. However, even after the words have been corrected, it is still not enough to get the message through. Better do it in person or not at all. And in case you actually do it in person, watch out for the markers that would tell you if the line has been compromised, so you would know where to go next.
COVER UP
The inescapable confusions you are feeling must be evaded. Yet another way to deal with them is to "cover them up." How so? This might be the most undesirable routes for somebody to deal with his or her confusions because a third party is involved without his or her knowledge. I believe the term used for this sort of strategy is to become "user-friendly." You have to distract yourself from the pesky feelings, and the easiest out of it is to have someone take your mind off them. You could end up hurting this other person, but there's a huge possibility you'll get over the emotions you are trying to put behind you. Like I said, it is undesirable but easy.
Whichever path you choose, you got to be firm with it because love won't stop until it finally has its hands on you.
Whenever an encounter on the matter arises, our hearts betray us and get us involved in the situation and if we're not too careful, it might shoot up and break our very cores. Love is a battle, and if you're not ready, it will destroy you whether it's intentionally and in most cases, unintentionally.
In instances like dating, love is at its peak - it's imposing and at the same time in its precarious stage. Even so, it's not "fate" that gets to decide how the relationship might turn out. The word "relationship" is also in question especially when not one of the two people involved bothers to figure out whatever it is that is taking place. Nobody wants to be left in the dark especially when it comes to love. Best ways to handle this type of situations are as follows:
IGNORE.
Say you were attracted to this somebody, and it just so happens this person displayed actions that may actually be a response to your suppressed emotions, what would you do then? This sort of condition should be left out in the dark simply because there is no light at the end of the tunnel. If at the very start of the adventure, there are already confusions, you could skip "asking" and move on to ignoring the perplexing questions entirely. This is as easy as ignoring the nagging sales assistant who follows you everywhere you go inside the mall. Maybe this is why some people prefer online mobile stores from personal shopping. You could get all the information you need from the Internet. Going back to ignoring the nagging feelings, it's a failsafe strategy. This way, the possibility of you getting hurt is close to nothing because you didn't entertain the emotions in the first place.
ASK.
It is always a bad idea to assume something you yourself aren't sure of. Assumptions are only good when you have at least an inkling of what might happen; otherwise, it's just plain trouble. This task is a must for everyone particularly those who are predisposed to texting and/or emailing through their smartphones as there is a great chance words could be misinterpreted if not carefully constructed. However, even after the words have been corrected, it is still not enough to get the message through. Better do it in person or not at all. And in case you actually do it in person, watch out for the markers that would tell you if the line has been compromised, so you would know where to go next.
COVER UP
The inescapable confusions you are feeling must be evaded. Yet another way to deal with them is to "cover them up." How so? This might be the most undesirable routes for somebody to deal with his or her confusions because a third party is involved without his or her knowledge. I believe the term used for this sort of strategy is to become "user-friendly." You have to distract yourself from the pesky feelings, and the easiest out of it is to have someone take your mind off them. You could end up hurting this other person, but there's a huge possibility you'll get over the emotions you are trying to put behind you. Like I said, it is undesirable but easy.
Whichever path you choose, you got to be firm with it because love won't stop until it finally has its hands on you.
